A Tsunami Tsummer

My Heart is Full

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Team Banda: Adam, Dedy, Adi, Ruby, and myself with the women of Bandar Baru.

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Saying Goodbye: One last look at Aceh from the air... but I'm not worried, I'm coming back.

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Saying Goodbye: All our local staff (including all four drivers) Ibu Murne's family, and our landlord, Pa Ibrahim, came to the airport to see me off... really, this is not a coke/cigarette add!

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Saying Goodbye: "Have sarong, will travel." One last pic with the guys (drivers and local staff). I will truly miss them.

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Saying Goodbye: My surrogate mom and housekeeper, Ibu Murne, was and is an amazing woman. She gave us all the love of a mother and are team was so much better because of her.

2005-08-09T16:28:00.000+07:00

Saying Goodbye: Ruby and I have a final hug and cry. She gave me a stunning Acehenese embroidered shirt. I received the traditional wedding hat from Sujata and the sarong from Adam. I gave her a picture of our "Cash for Work" team in Bandar Baru (see first pic). It was the day before she came down with typhoid. I will definitely miss this girl.

The Circle is Complete

2005-08-09T16:10:00.000+07:00

Tuesday, 9 August, 2005: Jakarta

I write these last lines from Jakarta. The proverbial “Leaving on a Jet Plane” plays in my head. And after all the shopping and gifts for Simone and others back at home, my bags are as heavy as my heart.

Banda Aceh has been a life-changing experience for this delegate. Yes, this was my summer internship, but it didn’t feel anything like that. While I have served in Germany, Kosovo, Kuwait, and Iraq, this experience has been unique. I was usually locked down on a military installation serving our troops, but here, I was out in the field, walking among the people and making friends. I found it extremely gratifying to watch a concept paper become a proposal and then become a vibrant program. It’s one thing to sit in a dusty warehouse and negotiate pick-ax prices with a vendor, but quite another thing to place two thousand of those in grateful workers’s hands. To look at village “before and after” pics and say… I had something to do with that! I also loved watching others grow as individuals. When villagers first came to us, they had a "what's in it for me" approach. Many were here because we had money. As we talked with them and worked with them, their attitudes changed greatly. They saw that we were not a "fly-by-night" NGO and that we are here to empower the community. They also realized that our projects are not about "giving them something," but about instilling community resilience and community action planning.

Aceh is also a place like no other, this goes for the people as well. If you ask a Javanese, what is the stereotypical Achenese person, they would say they are arrogant, proud, and someone who refuses to follow directions. Nothing could be further from the truth. The people's smiles and laughter in the face of tragedy has humbled me and shown me a positively resilient attitude that I never would have expected. They opened their homes to me, they opened their hearts. In many ways, they have given me much more than I could ever give them. The last few days have been very tearful. My housekeeper and surrogate mom, Ibu Murne, has not stopped crying for five days. We had a small farewell on Saturday… and it was my chance for the tears to flow… and they flowed in a stop-go fashion for several hours. The house that night was heavy, heavy with love. Not love for me, but love for each other and the mission and dream we share together for rebuilding Aceh. These people have taken a foot-hold on my heart and will never let go and I don’t want them to let go either! I can’t say good-bye, I refuse… Aceh and its people are too wonderful to never NOT return.

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Mulia: Roads were destroyed by the tsunami. The villagers actually preferred large gravel over cement. When we first started this project, I saw a truck get stuck on this road. Now a sedan can pass without a problem.

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Mulia: The first time I visited this site, I fell into the water due to the precarious stones that had been placed across the pond to make a kind of dyke. What an amazing experience to see this "cess pool" become clean again.

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Mulia: Believe it or not, these people wer having fun! There were literally a dozen houses blown into this pond.

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Mulia: What a feeling to run across this road without the fear of falling into the water.

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Mulia: Cleaning drainage ditches filled with tsunami mud is no easy task. Many of these drains were level with the road! I was on site visiting them and they pulled out the remains of a small boy.

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Mulia: This area is prone to flooding and these ditches provide vital run-off.

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Lampaya: It's amazing what six hundred people working together can do!

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Lampaya: The amount of downed treese was sometimes overwhelming.

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Desa Lampaya: Not yet a golf course, but getting there!

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Village of Lamdingin: Hard workers need good food. We established this field kitchen. The women organized and ran it.

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Village of Lamdingin: Clearing drainage ditches was essental to prevent the spread of diseases like malaria and cholera.

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Rukoh: Fishponds are a mass of twisted trees and destroyed houses.

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Rukoh: I actually gasped when I saw the amazing work that had been done to this fish pond. Now with a few mangrove trees, it will be ready for fish.

The Circle is Closing

2005-08-04T10:38:00.000+07:00

Wednesday 3 August, 2005: Banda Aceh

One Week… That’s all I have left in Indonesia. In some ways I can’t believe it. These three months have flown. Now comes the worse part, the slow, drawn out good-byes. But it’s not for a week and I refuse to dwell on it. And anyway, I’m so busy getting everything ready for my replacement that I have barely time to spit! I just got back from Medan where I attended technical working groups. These are meetings where various NGOs get together and work out development strategies. I presented on our Cash for Work program. It was nice to have a change from Aceh. Medan is the largest city on the island of Sumatra and the hub for many logistics operations. Yes, they had shops and modern restaurants (I had my first Starbucks in three months!), but the city really doesn’t have any character. It is big, noisy, and industrial. It’s also majority Christian. I saw very few women wearing jilbabs (head coverings) and churches were ubiquitous. Did go out for some GREAT Indian. I can’t wait to get back to Ann Arbor and attack a few restaurants with gusto! One more week.

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Sabang: A portrait of "Coolness." Drivers, Adi, Rivan, Vani, my finance man, Dedy, driver Indra, and Eddie our Admin Man.

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Sabang: Teh, our wat-san engineer, always prepared. Yes, we had bungalows but he was determined to camp on the beach.

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Sabang: Our Housekeeper, Ibu Murne... and gear

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Sabang: Sujata, testing out her snorkeling gear

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Sabang: Adam, doing a talented balancing act.

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Sabang: Adi working hard to make sure we have dinner... That's a trigger fish that he caught. Check out http://www.the-deep-blue.co.uk/images/RedSea-09-02/Trigger%20Fish/P9040124.JPG and you can see that this is a fish that should definitely stay underwater!

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Sabang: A sad catch if I ever saw one. (Two blue trigger fish)

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Sabang: Josh and Kerry coming back from a great dive.

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Sabang: Our Crew at sunset at Kilometer Zero, the most north-westerly point in Indonesia.

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Sabang: Ibu Murne at the grill... fresh grouper and snapper wrapped in banana leaves.

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Sabang: Josh and Harem: (R-L Dwindra, Ibu Murne, Ruby, Ayu)

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Sabang: "To Catch a Squid." Ruby, gone midnight fishing, catches a sizeable calamari... too bad it was too late for our bbq!

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Sabang: Going Home, a time well had by all.

A Farewell to Sabang

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Monday, 1 August, 2005: Banda Aceh

One week until I leave Aceh. As I right this a lump is forming in my throat. Yes, I want to be home, but it’s also bittersweet because I know many of the people I meet here I will never see again. But we’re not trying to think about it. Heck, I’m busier than I’ve been all summer and still have so much to do!

But our team took a break this weekend. We took all of our local staff to Sabang, a sleepy little island four hours by ferry off the coast of Banda Aceh. I was in Sabang for a day back in June… actually, on a dive boat off the coast, but this time we actually stayed in bungalows on the island… very much a camp feel. The bungalows are small houses on stilts. They have VERY BASIC accommodations, but you don’t need a lot of AC when you have the breeze coming off the ocean. Teh, our wat-san engineer has been on Sabang several times doing assessments. The island was also affected by the tsunami. They lost about 150 people and also have internally displaced person camps.

But… we were trying hard not to think about work. It really was about bonding as a team. Our local staff is very near and dear to my heart. After all, I hired everyone of them! They really are part of our team and we would fail miserably if it wasn’t for them. We also brought our housekeeper, Ibu Murne, and her husband and son. It truly was a great weekend. It was also Ruby’s first week back. She had been knocked out for almost a month with typhoid fever and it felt great to hear her squeals of laughter.

There is something laidback about beach culture, regardless of where you are. Aceh is a strictly Muslim province and the only women not wearing headscarves are Chinese and westerners. But as soon as the ferry docked in the port, you saw women undoing their headscarves and tossing their now-free hair in the island breeze. It had an effect on all of us. I felt like one of the characters in the Twilight Zone "Kick the Can" episode where we all revert to children. It was a refreshing that I have not experienced in years.

We drove to the bungalows over a coastal road lined with rocky cliffs on one side and jungle on the other. We passed many a monkey and ran over a two meter long snake. After we checked in, we had a late dinner of freshly caught grilled grouper and after an amazing moonlit walk on the beach, the team retired by eleven. We were up at seven to catch a dive/snorkeling boat. It dropped a group off at a natural coral garden and then took Kerry (a dive-friend of mine from Australia) and I to a great dive site. While we were diving, our drivers stayed on the boat and unsuccessfully tried to catch our dinner. They did catch two blue trigger fish… but I must say, these fish are stunning underwater… and very sad and small when their lying dead on the floor of your boat. Interestingly though, they have a very thick skin and can stay on a boat without ice for up to twenty-four hours without going bad.

After a day of diving and snorkeling, we returned back to bungalows and took naps. Teh, our grillmaster, actually insisted on bringing our charcoal grill from Banda Aceh… Unfortunately, we didn’t have anything to throw on it. We had to send a crew into the village to pick up fish. At five-thirty, right before sunset, we herded the group in our cars and drove up the north west coast of the island to “Kilometer Zero” which is the most northerly and westerly point of Indonesia. It started raining… and once we got the required photo to prove we were there, we headed back to the bungalows. Despite the sprinking, we still had a great bbq and were up till two in the morning talking… we also discovered the local hooch, a banana-chocolate liqueur… yes, it tastes as bad as it sounds! I signed off at two but several people went fishing until four in the morning. Ruby (see pic) caught a sizeable squid!

The next day was spent lazily having breakfast and talking. A few people went snorkeling from the beach… I just enjoyed not thinking of work. We sent the drivers in the morning on the car ferry and took a fast ferry in the afternoon. While the car ferry docks outside of Banda Aceh (the port is still destroyed from the tsunami), the faster passenger ferry is smaller and can dock in Ulelee, the old Banda Aceh port. It’s also in the heart of tsunami country. I cannot describe the feeling you have. You’ve just had an amazing weekend on a proverbial island paradise, taken a modern fast ferry, and you dock in place that looks like an atom bomb struck. As we got off the ferry, there was a broken down mosque in front of us… it was the only standing building in a 10 or fifteen acre radius. Utter devastation, sobering like nothing I can put into words. The tsunami actually struck while the ferry was on the way from Sabang to Banda Aceh. In the water they didn’t feel a thing… it was only when they arrived to Banda Aceh and couldn’t find the port that they realized something had gone terribly wrong. The friends who were waiting to pick them up were dead and the homes that they were coming back to were gone. Life in color, going to black and white.

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Hard at Work: Workers in Lampaya burn debris in a rice paddy. The mosque in the background towers over tent shelters. It was the only Lampayan building to survive the tsunami.

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Stuck: Workers in Lampaya clear rice paddies of debris (and try to get our truck out of the mud)

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Team Chainsaw: Breaking a tsunami boat apart.

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Chainsaws in Lampulo: Our chainsaw team breaks apart a tsunami boat. The people in the pink house would like their front yard back!

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Work of Fruition: The first task (three weeks ago) of the villagers of Mulia was to clear this field which used to contain several houses. Job Well Done. The grass is even growing back.

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Works In Progress: Our villagers clear a fish pond of debris in Mulia

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"Team Circumcision" -- Taking a well deserved break. They were truly a "CUT" above the rest!

A "Slice" of Life

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Sunday 17 July, 2005-07-18: Desa Kadju

What can I say? I just came back from a “cutting-edge” experience. I was invited to a ritual circumcision… and hey, how often do you get an invitation like that… especially when they tell me a hundred kids are all simultaneously going under the knife!?! Unlike in the US, Indonesians do not circumcise babies, but wait until the boy is twelve years old. This is a sort of “coming-of-age” event. The Indonesian Red Cross (PMI) is a local NGO which has always performed circumcisions as a service. I have worked with several of their staff over the course of the summer and they invited me to come along when they did some circumcisions at one of the displaced people camps.

We traveled to the village of Kadju. I had been there before doing assessments for our Cash-for-Work program and recognized the village elders. The camp was waiting for us. All their homes were destroyed and they live in wooden long-houses that are up on stilts. The have a public building which can also double as a mosque called a Meunassah. It was there where the fun begins. The village had told PMI that approximately 100 boys would “go under the knife.” When we showed up, there were only thirty. In the middle of the Meunassah, they had erected a makeshift operating room (a few old sheets hung on clothesline) and set up tables in the room. There were six teams that set up.

In some parts of Indonesia, this is quite a ceremony. The entire family dresses in traditional clothing and the boy wears a sarong and special hat that will also be worn on his wedding day. Rich families actually distribute professionally printed invitation cards very reminiscent of wedding invites. Here in the camps, most people have lost everything, but the village leaders tried to instill as much pomp as possible. This is the most important religious event in a boy’s life… quite similar to a Catholic First Communion or a protestant confirmation. There were leaders from Banda Aceh and the District Mayor as well as the subdistrict mayor. They each took turns extolling the virtues of Islam and how this was a stepping stone towards manhood. Five boys were then selected to go before the leaders. They were then symbolically blessed by various village leaders (including women). They had rice thrown on them, then they were fed a saffron rice for strength and were anointed with water for purity. One of the boys recited verses from the Koran and then the imam lead the group in joint-prayer… then the fun begin.

The five boys who participated in the ceremony also got to go first (along with another boy). They all went without fear into the enclosure. Each got undressed and lay on the tables (head to head). Tears didn’t come until they saw the needles of lidocaine. Some boys tried to get up (but were held down) while others stoically accepted their fate. One boy (boy in pink shirt in pic) never uttered a word. He clenched his teeth and tears welled in his eyes, but not one peep ever emerged from his mouth.

The surgeries went quite fast, but they were more invasive than I thought they would be. US circumcisions are usually performed without benefit of anesthesia but here they inject the base and head of the penis with several lidocaine shots. In the US our baby circumcisions are also almost bloodless. That was not the case here. I don’t know if it was because the foreskin was larger or if they did not clamp as long, but several kids had to be sewed up because of heavy bleeding.

All in all, the day was a success… but we did have one problem. The children disappeared. As I mentioned before, when we came to the village we had been told there would be one hundred boys. Seventy didn’t show up… that gave us thirty. These thirty sat through the ceremony, but when the first cries were heard from behind the sheets… several boys SHOT out of the meunassah and literally hid from their parents. Fifteen boys hid so effectively so that we had to leave before they ever showed up. We were closing up shop and just as we were getting ready to leave, three sets of parents arrived with boys in tow. After some quick preparations, these boys also underwent the knife.

I must say, the PMI did a great job. The circumcisions were performed by either doctors or paramedics. There was one paramedic, (The Circumcision-Meister) who could complete the operation with less blood in half the time of all the doctors. They asked me if I wanted to perform a circumcision myself or just take a snip… I declined. Definitely a good day… but I’m never going to look at fried calamari the same way again!

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Kadju Kuttings: The Meunassah where the circumcision ceremonies were performed. We set up a make-shift operating room with a few sheets in the middle of the building.

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Kadju Kuttings: The boys waiting for the ceremony to begin try to sneak a peek at the make-shift operating room where "boys become men."

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Kadju Kuttings: Setting up the operating room. The boys will lie head to head, sharing one pillow. Six teams of three will perform the circumcisions.

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Kadju Kuttings: One of the boys (a future Mu'azzin) recites verses from the Koran extolling the importance of leaving boyhood and becoming men.

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Kadju Kuttings: Sacraments: The food symbolizes the boys' path towards manhood.

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Kadju Kuttings: The chief blesses each of the boys and feeds them a bit of saffron rice (very much like communion)

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Kadju Kuttings: A woman village elder sprinkles each of the boys with water before surgery begins.

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Kadju Kuttings: This boy was impressive. He put all others to shame. While he may have grimaced, narry a cry escaped from his lips.

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Kadju Kuttings: Wissam undergoes his rite into manhood.

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Faces of Aceh: Syarhial, my local counterpart, took me to see the remains of his home and his life. After taking a six month break to volunteer, he is back teaching chemistry at the university. The university desparately needs staff as forty percent of their professors perished in the tsunami.

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This Used To Be My House: Syarhial stands in what used to be his son's bedroom. He was at a conference in Medan when the tsunami hit. They never found his wife, children, or mother-in-law.

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Got Wheels: Syarhial, my local NGO Cash For Work Counterpart standing with Adam on his post-tsunami Toyota Corolla. Hey... the tires still have air.

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Tsunami Tstill-Life: A Potpourri of lives lost: A child's shoe, shells from the ocean, coconuts from the palms, plates and tiles from a home.

Armless...

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Thursday 14 July, 2005-07-14

My right-arm is gone… or at least currently indisposed. Ruby, the sunshine of our office, has gotten typhoid fever and is a very sick girl. If you know Ruby, you know how full of energy she is, how she is always ready to help you and has a smile for every member in our team, no matter how grumpy or annoyed they might be. There are many pics of her on the blog and she is constantly swiping my camera and taking more… she loves to be in front of a camera and often the life of the party (or at least the office). I was speechless when I first saw her in the clinic. Instead of bursting with energy, she lay asleep, almost lifeless with an IV dripping into her hand. It didn’t look like her. Her headscarf was gone, her skin waxy, and her brow damp with sweat. I’m not a father, but feelings that I can only describe as father feelings welled up in me. I had to fight back the tears as I talked with the doctor… this just wasn’t Ruby.

But Ruby needed the sleep. She had been burning her candle at both ends. She had almost been living at the clinic for three previous nights where she had been bed-sitting with a friend of hers who had been hit by a truck. Her friend, who had a broken knee, teeth, and serious lacerations, was a tsunami-orphan and had no family. The clinic is close to the sea… you never know, the long nights and the presence of bacteria might have been the kicker.

But she is doing better. I talked to her last night and her fever is under control. She most likely will be released to go home today… but she won’t be back in the office until the end of July. She has to recuperate…. She asked me quite seriously if I was going to fire her… Fat chance, I replied. She has a contract and she’s not going to get out that easy… after all… I kind of like my right arm and wanna keep it!

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Team Cash for Work: The Bandar Baru ladies take time from stump burning to pose with Ruby, Adam, Dedy, and I.

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Bandar Baru: Signing time sheets

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Look at the Bule Bule (White people)!: The Children in Mulia watch our arrival with curiosity.

Playing with the Camera

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Friday 8 July, 2005 13:07: Banda Aceh

I just posted a few pics of one of our field visits yesterday. People are hard at work and seem to be enjoying having something to do. I've been playing around with my light filter... hence the black and white pictures. It's great walking through the villages and the people are starting to get to know me... I could never sneak in because the children herald our arrival. Cries of "Bule Bule (Boo-lay)" or "The White Man is Coming!" greet me each time. But I love it. I was again present as remains were discovered. The day before they had found a full set of remains in a field. His identity card was still legible and they were able to present his remains to his mother. When we found the remains yesterday, they were in a drainage ditch... right next to a waterlogged stuffed puppy. Judging by the size of the bones, they probably belonged to the small owner of the stuffed animal. You think you're desensitized enough, but then you see something like that in your face... and it really is like a cold shower.

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Hard at Work: One of our Cash For Work laborers breaks down the remains of an old house. Behind him was the bathroom.

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Victims of the Tsunami: Close to the stuffed animal, a worker collects human remains which have just been discovered.

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Victims of the Tsunami: This stuffed puppy dog was found waterlogged and muddied in one of the drainage ditches.

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Hard at Work: Our Cash for Work Laborers cleaning a drainage ditch. Yes, that's a boat behind them. It's only three kilometers inland!

Pay Day

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Saturday 9 July, 2005: Bandar Baru

Well, we have a full week of Cash For Work finished and we are now paying people… it’s quite a new headache. But Dedy is doing a great job. We chose the village of Bandar Baru to do payments first. Unfortunately, Indonesia is infamous for corruption and we (and the villages) have taken many safeguards to ensure that all the money that we deliver goes directly into the hands of the villagers. We have witnesses and recountings galore, ensuing that when we leave a village, the everyone knows exactly how much money the leaders have and we also post everyone’s payments on a large boards so you will know if Abdullah or Heni got more or less than they should have.

After distributing the funds, we took a walk through the town. It’s exciting to see real progress being made. We’ve also been a bit frustrated because some of the equipment that we bought is breaking. Of course, hoes were meant to break up dirt, not concrete homes. Took a picture of some of the women working. They love it when we come to visit and are so happy to be finally working. Definitely a good day.

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Cash for Work in Rukoh: This was the offiical opening ceremony... Hopefully my last for a while!

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Cash For Work in Lamdingin: Curried goat for lunch in the field kitchen.

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Cash For Work Lamdingin: The women have set up a collective field kitchen to cook for the workers.

More Ceremonies

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Tuesday 5 July, 2005: Rukoh Village, Syiah Kuala

OK, I’m definitively going to have to get the flowered hat. Not just because I feel like a head of state, but because this sun is so blinding. My face is fried thanks to two more Cash for Work opening ceremonies. Don’t get me wrong, I am ecstatic that things are going well and I enjoy each one, but standing in the 110 degree sun with sweat dripping down my face and into every crack and crevice of my body can be quite annoying.

Really though, things are going well. It’s great to see the villagers so excited about working. Now the hard part comes… we have to figure out all the paying and make sure that that goes smoothly… they are working, but the people are going to want their money. Dedy’s doing great though and I’m confident that we will have a smooth transition.

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Cash For Work: Opening Ceremony for our program in Lamdingin. I'm telling you... I need some flowers in the hat!

A Bit of National Party Pride!

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Monday 4 July, 2005: Banda Aceh

Happy Fourth of July! Doesn’t really feel like one here. No banners or flags flying. VERY subdued. But we did show a bit of color this weekend. The Americans finally had their party. Our sister societies usually take turns hosting parties. I’ve been to a Russian, German, Norwegian, and two Australian ones. It was about time that we did our fare share. In retrospect, I would say that our party was a screaming success. We now have eleven staff. What a change from the first month when it was just Teh and me! Of course, having so many local staff and expats means that we can spread the costs a bit more evenly among the group.

We tried to be as American as possible without being fascist. We were able to talk to a local baker who made hamburger buns and a butcher who would grind beef. So we had hamburgers, beef hotdogs, Fried Chicken, and potato salad. It was a lot of work. A few of our local staff worked almost full-time, getting preparations in order. Have have a few good logistics friends who helped me secure “certain effervescent beverages” as well. We still are very cogniscent of where we are. All drinks were served in plastic cups and we made sure that the noise level got out of hand. We also let the local police and our landlord know that we were having a little party.
The BBQ started at five, but people are such workaholics here, that people didn’t really start arriving till seven. Sujata and I had put a “mellow mix” and a “happy mix ” Itunes playlist together and had a decent pair of speakers. Eddie, our new admin assistant, also secured a karaoke set… dangerous amongst Indonesians. There was dancing and a lot of fun had by all. We ended up having about a hundred people there. The beauty of Aceh is, there is a twelve o’clock curfew for Ex-pats… so the party didn’t go into the wee hours of the morning. Although we did have to push along some drunk South African pilots!

We had Ibu Murne, our housekeeper, and her family actually work the party for us. They were life savers and they ensured that it was success. They came the day after and cleaned everything up as well. Sunday was the most relaxing day I have had yet. We did NOTHING. I think Sujata, Teh, and I laid on the couch for about four hours. After all the excitement and craziness of party, it felt great to do nothing… I need to try to do that more often.

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2nd of July Party: Strike a Pose. Adi figuring out karaoke, Indra looking very Calvin Klein-esque, and Eddie... being Eddie.

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2nd of July Party: Our local staff knows how to have a good time!

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2nd of July Party: Disco time... who would've thought that our living room would become the "happening-est" dance floor in Aceh!

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2nd of July Party: Yes, we KNOW we're beautiful!

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2nd of July Party: People slowly arriving... two hours later, it was packed!

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2nd of July Party: The Spread

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2nd of July Party: Getting the salads ready. Jeff, Ibu Murne, Me, and Ibu Murne's son.

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Life Savers: Ibu Murne and her family did all the prep work... cutting over 20 kg of potatoes and so much more!

2005-07-05T13:28:00.000+07:00

2nd of July Party: It's a BBQ silly! Jeff showing Lena from Greece and Gulnara from Kazikstan how a REAL hamburger is made.

Wedding: Aceh Style

2005-07-05T13:27:00.000+07:00

Saturday 2 July, 2005: Banda Aceh

This is going to be a crazy day. We have our party this evening. I just got back from an Indonesian wedding. Actually, more of a reception. Ayu, Sujata’s assistant, knew the sister of the bride. I felt like I was more at a convention than a wedding ceremony. The reception was in a huge hall. There was a giant stage where the bride and groom were in this little house. The two pairs of parents were in smaller houses to the left and right of the bride and groom. They spent the whole time on the stage. There were periodical dances interrupted with karaoke or people coming to pay their respects. I don’t think I ever saw the bride and groom touch. Both were dressed in traditional wedding costumes. He had the classic Acehenese man’s wedding cap (which I found out that they also wear for their ritual circumcision at age 12!). The bride was beautiful. She truly looked like a china doll. I can see why she didn’t more that much, she had a giant headdress on… I would have been frightened that it would fall off! Interestingly, her bridesmaids were dressed western style blue. And for Aceh, their clothes were quite revealing. Of course, everything is relative. Any other day, the women would only show their hands and face. But here, you could see the lower third of their leg and their arms were bared. They also were not wearing a headcovering. Since this was my first wedding, I don’t know if this was a religious or cultural choice.

I’m glad I went. The food was great and the reception was definitely educational… but I was also surprised. The reception was all pomp and ceremony but no heart. The Acehenese are a passionate people… but this was totally devoid of passion. I felt more like I was at some kind of Indonesian cultural expo. People wandered in and out of the hall… people ate, people left. There were no dining tables set up. Just chairs facing the stage… people got food, sat down, walked around. There was no emotion, no father of the bride dance. In no way was it work, but it was just different.

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Wedding--Aceh Style: Ruby, Ayu, the bridal couble, Sujata, and myself (I swear, I look like an overstuffed olive!)

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Wedding--Aceh Style: Bride and groom... are we having fun yet?

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Wedding--Aceh Style: Dancer performing traditional dances of Aceh.

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Wedding--Aceh Style: Dancers perform for the wedding party. His parents are on the left and hers are on the right.

2005-07-01T13:30:00.000+07:00

Mulia--Cash for Work in Action: Clearing Debris (photo courtesy of our press office)

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Mulia--Cash for Work in Action: Wheelbarrows, sledgehammers, and hoes, the tools of recovery

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Mulia--Cash for Work in Action: Distribution of Safety Equipment (photo courtesy of our press office)

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Mulia--Cash for Work in Action: Barbara distributing token wheelbarrows to female villagers. (courtesy of our press officer)

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Mulia--Cash for Work in Action: Clearing debris on the first day of work (photo courtesy our our press office)

2005-07-01T13:22:00.000+07:00

Mulia: Me, trying to be eloquent!

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A Plan for Mulia: A breakdown where workgroups with be clearing.

A Birth

2005-06-30T13:08:00.000+07:00

Thursday 30 June, 2005 1300: Mulia

Today was an exciting day. As my coworker, Barbara, said, we birthed a baby today. That baby was my Cash for Work project. After a lot of discussion with our sister NGO, here in Banda, we wanted to start with a small village and work out any kinks that might develop as a result. Barbara, our finance delegate from Jakarta, came up for the first day of the project and also to work with my finance/admin officer to ensure that all the villagers get the supplies which they need. We went out at 8:00 AM to the site. Mulia is a sub-village inside of Banda Aceh. It was in the direct path of the tsunami. Destroyed houses were everywhere. Before the tsunami, the village had 2000 people. Now it has 800. I came there expecting to watch the first day of signing in. It turns out they wanted to have a small ceremony and I had to give a speech! The village really went to a lot of work to get ready for this ceremony. There were banners and the local Imam had been invited to also speak. After the chief spoke, then the Imam talked for about ten minutes. It was then my turn. I really wasn’t sure what to say, but I talked about the effects of the tsunami and how on the 26^th of December, Aceh cried, then the world cried. I tried to stress that I am only here because of the American people and their desire to help the people of Aceh. I know that this is only a small token of gratitude, but if we can clean this one village, and clean it well, then we’ve done something.

The people were very grateful. After the speech, Barbara and I distributed token wheelbarrows and hats to village representatives. It was a bit strange, I felt like the queen of England or something… I almost touched my hair, making sure I wasn’t wearing a flowered hat! After the ceremony, they brought us to a table (almost like a tribunal) where we could watch the rest of the distribution. They had refreshments for us as well. I didn’t want to sit though. I got up and watched as coordinators made ID cards and distributed boots, hoes, wheelbarrows, and gloves. Many NGOs do not provide protective equipment. I’m glad that we made that a policy early on. We also took a small tour of the village and saw some of the devastation. It disturbs me how the devastation doesn’t shock me anymore. I feel almost numbed from it.

I think we got some good press from the event. Our local press officers were there taking snapshots and interviewing villagers. It was really a great feeling to see something develop from inception to implementation. Knowing I must return in mid-August, it pains me to know that I will not be able to be here to see the program’s completion. I’ll be honest, though. I really enjoyed the moment, but it’s something that I never could have done without the volunteers on the ground. We’re finished with planning and are now in the program management stage… let the fun begin!

Es Tu Satay?

2005-06-29T18:18:00.000+07:00

Wednesday 29 June, 2006: Banda Aceh

Yesterday… was NOT a good day. It actually started off quite harmless. I had a pancake and some scrambled eggs. Ibu Murne, our housekeeper, had made some exquisite chicken satay the night before (this is sort of like a shish kabob of grilled meat that is dipped in a peanut sauce). I was just in a munching mood and had a piece from the fridge. At work, as usual, life was very hectic. I needed to get a money transfer from our finance officer in Jakarta to pay for some operations cost. Simone, my wife, called for a few minutes and I started realizing something was not right. My mom got on the phone and I would usually love to talk, but I just wanted to get off the phone but didn’t know why. I had to go to the bank and pick up a money transfer from Jakarta. As I started off to the bank… I started getting an uneasy almost queasy feeling. Twenty minutes into the ride I was sweating and feeling nauseous. My field officer, Dedy, was by my side. I looked at him and said… I gotta get out. We pulled off the road and I puked till I thought I could not puke anymore. It felt great… you know that feeling of peace after the retching is over!

Dedy wanted to go to the hospital. He’d never seen vomit such a bright yellow and was a bit worried, but I really needed to get the money from the bank. We decided to continue on. This time I got in the car on the right side… so incase I got sick I could get out of the car fast. Glad I did… two klicks down the road I was throwing up again. I was pretty sure this was a nasty case of botulism or salmonella. I had food-poisoning in Rome last year (Simone has a pic of me tossing cookies by the Trevi Fountain and the Spanish steps) and I recognized the symptoms. Dedy was great though. He kept massaging my neck as I was dry-heaving. We called our nurses at the office and they suggested to go home and take an anti-nauseal. We stopped at a pharmacist (where I threw up) and got some pills (and some plastic bags for the ride home). They told me to take one pill. I got took it with the water, got back in the car and five minutes later promptly threw it up into the bag. The pills weren’t cheap, but I wasn’t even considering recycling! Thus began the recurring theme for the next four hours. I got to know the texture, color, and taste of stomach bile quite well. But boy, our housekeeper was a true saint. She kept checking in on me, wiping my brow, cleaning me up. It was not fun, but she made it so much better than it could have been. Ibu Murne’s brownie points were already high and they just went through the roof!

But I’m all better now. I finally fell asleep in the early afternoon and slept for another four hours… my body needed the rest. My appetite has improved, but I haven’t touched satay since!

Safe and Sound

2005-06-24T10:15:00.000+07:00

Thursday 23 June, 2005 10:30 AM: Banda Aceh
You might have heard that a relief worker was shot last night in Aceh and I’m just checking in… letting you know it wasn’t me and I’m fine! Though, it was a little freaky for me because I have travelled the road where the person was shot several times. This has been a wake-up call to all of us here in the field. It's also a reminder that we are still serving in a conflict area. Our thoughts and prayers are with her and we hope and pray that this was just a freak accident.

2005-06-23T10:48:00.000+07:00

Community Action Planning: Volunteers working with village chief (man in the middle) and senior village leaders to create an action plan to rebuild their village.

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Community Action Planning: Our sister society decided to include women in the planning process at the last moment. I'm so glad they did. They provided tremendous insight and really were responsible for the overall success of the training.

2005-06-23T10:45:00.000+07:00

Mappng: The Fisherman describing his ideal village. They envision fish ponds and and processing plants. They were concentrating so much on fishing that they forgot about farming and schools.